Wednesday, November 20, 2013

Online Memorials For Condolences For Loss Of Pet

By Georgia Diaz


Losing a pet is often a traumatic process with a heartfelt grieving period attached to it. Very often pets are part of the family and their sudden absence could be very hard for the pet owner to handle. When offering sympathy and condolences for loss of pet an online memorial is a great way to help with the grieving process.

A gesture that many pet owners will appreciate is a card. There are many different cards available and choosing one that is suited to the pet owner's personality or that perhaps has an appropriate picture can be very comforting. When buying a card it is advised to hand write some of the content. There are many quotes and poems available online or even a personalized message will mean a lot to the receiver.

Start by offering sympathies such as "I'm sorry for your loss". Often pets are linked to routine, especially dogs that need regular exercising. If a pet owner used to walk their dog before work each day, the grief may be so much more evident at that time. A well placed phone call could make a world of difference.

After the death of a pet the family's routine may change. This can also be unsettling. If the dog used to be walked at 6pm every day, a new activity could be suggested to fill that gap and take their minds off the death of a pet. Join a gym or start a book club, the death will be easier to work through if a busy schedule is maintained.

A third page is dedicated to the life span of the pet. Milestones that pet and owner achieved together may be included here along with apt quotes and memories. Some of the pet's favorite activities can be described here along with a few anecdotes and stories about them. Perhaps a memorable naughty or cute story can be included.

When including any form of religion into the message consider it carefully. Beliefs tend to vary greatly and be careful of offending someone's religious beliefs. Even if you feel you are well acquainted with the grieving person you may not be in tune with what religious beliefs you share and which you do not.

If you yourself have endured the loss of a pet before then perhaps your insights can help. Maybe there is something in particular that was said during that time that left a mark. Very often than not past experiences can help others through a difficult time. Be supportive and loving and offer genuine sympathies, many people can sense if someone is being dishonest or fake.

A good start when hearing about the death of a friend's pet is to just call them and chat to them. Listen attentively and offer support. Don't tell them not to cry or that it is probably for the best, even if the pet was not well. Be supportive and sensitive, it is a difficult time and offer condolences for loss of pet, remember the pet was part of the family too.




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